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Eternal Optimist: Bella

My son’s family dog was staying the week with me while they were out of town. Bella knows me well as I visit her house often, and she has stayed with me for a few days several times. She is six years old, weighs about eight pounds and, although her breed-specific diet consists of regular dry food and water, she never ceases to believe that a handout is coming. She grabs an occasional crumb that falls from the table, but for the most part no one purposely gives her anything other than the designated food and occasional doggie treats. 

On this Sunday, friends were visiting me from out-of-state. Before we left for Sunday morning church service, I secured Bella in the house and left the back door open so she could go in and out to potty and sun herself. When we came back home and she didn’t meet us at the door, I knew right away something was wrong. Tami, Haley, and I all called for her. No response. A quick glance at the gate and I could see that she had managed somehow to push the bricks out of the way and likely escaped under the gate. Apparently she became alarmed or angry that she was left alone and dug herself out of the back yard. How this little dog managed to move the bricks that were blocking the gate, I don’t know, but she was gone. We prayed.

Bella is a calm and cuddly companion. As soon as I sit down, she jumps on my lap to be stroked and then sleeps. She accompanies me on my walk each morning and sniffs out rocks and plants (and doo doo) along the way. At night, she snuggles close to sleep—I’m not sure whether she’s protecting me or thinks I’m protecting her. Does she just want to be close; or is she missing her family—especially the children? Probably the latter, and now she had escaped. 

While my visitors prayed and walked around my neighborhood, I went to my son’s house to check the voice mail in hopes that someone had found Bella wandering around. There were several messages. One caller said they had seen the little dog from my house running down the street, but the next caller (Trisha) had great news. She had Bella in her house. Thank God for the phone number on her collar. Trisha gave me her address and I headed to her house. Bella had run almost 2 miles through rocks and sand, across a busy 4-lane road, and onto an unpaved road lined with million dollar houses.

Trisha opened the gate for me with Bella in her arms. She said she was letting her big dog out (he had probably seen Bella) when she saw this little dog looking through the gate. She went out to investigate and, seeing no other human being anywhere near, she picked Bella up and saw the phone number on her collar. She took her in the house, wiped the dust off of her, gave her water, and called that number and left a message. When she didn’t hear back from the message, she asked her husband to pick up some dog food and a bed for Bella—fully expecting her to become a member of their family. Bella was obviously lost and very thirsty. Trisha said Bella had been there for several hours which meant she dug herself out of my gate shortly after we left. She came willingly into my arms and snuggled on my shoulder as if to say, “Sorry.” 

There was no better house for Bella to stop at than Trisha’s. She was an elderly lady who loved dogs and had already decided she would keep Bella if her owner did not call for her. 

Back at my house, my visitors also gave Bella hugs to welcome her back home, then she settled down to nap in the gold chair–her favorite daytime sleeping place. We went to the kitchen to make dinner … and along came Bella dancing on her hind legs.

Bella’s one trait that exceeds them all is begging. It doesn’t matter if I think she’s sleeping, when the refrigerator door opens, she’s there—tail wagging and standing on her hind legs. When the cupboard opens, she’s there—tail wagging and prancing on her hind legs. When I sit down at the table to eat, she’s there—tail wagging and delicately balancing on her hind legs. Why? It’s as if she thinks, after six years, this might be the moment of breakthrough. This might be the time she’ll strike it rich and get a dainty morsel—a taste of something different from her regular food. She does not become discouraged when time after time she gets nothing. Next time, she’s there again. She doesn’t give up. 

I call Bella the Eternal Optimist. And I’m reminded of Jesus’ words: “Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you” (Matthew 7:7; Luke 11:9).  Do not grow weary for in due season you will reap if you faint not (Gal. 6:9). Keep anticipating the rewards that come to those who eagerly wait (Psa. 27:14).

NOTE: Update: January 26, 2016, at the age of 10+ years, Bella did not wake up. She left her loving family behind. The children ages 9, 7, and 5 had her watchful eye from the time they were born. She has left her footprints on all of our hearts. “People who love God take good care of their animals”  (Prov. 12:10).

First published in The Alabaster Box, 2010 (c) C. Yvonne Karl

yvonnekarl@gmail.com

What shall we do with Santa?

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Some years ago Noah and Laura, two of my students, gave me a treasured Christmas gift: a ceramic Santa kneeling at the manger worshipping Jesus.

I am well aware that there are those who would like to eradicate the legend of Santa, but he does typify what every Christian should be like for He is described as being full of love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, goodness, and faith. (cf. Gal.5)

The Santa custom actually began as a person named Nicholas who was born around the year 300 A.D. in what is now Turkey. He was a devoted disciple of Jesus Christ. When his parents died and he inherited their wealth, he simply gave it away in the form of gifts—primarily to poor children. If the recipient discovered his identity, he would request that they tell no one. From this came the custom of gifts coming from an unnamed Santa. We should not lie to our children about who Santa is, but enjoy the custom while making certain we teach them that Christmas is all about God giving His Son Jesus to deliver us from our sin and bring us into His family.

St. Nicholas, the generous gift-giver, was a church leader throughout his life and known for his warm personality, his compassionate spirit, and boldness in preaching. In later generations his death on December sixth was celebrated by giving gifts. Christians were already celebrating the birth of Jesus on a Roman festival day December 25, and at some point along the way, the St. Nicholas remembrance became a part of the Christmas celebration with the exchange of gifts as a reminder of the greatest gift of all—Jesus Christ.

In the Gospel of Matthew, we meet the Wise Men—kings from the East—who recognized Jesus as God’s gift to them and brought Him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh. Likewise we acknowledge the gift that others are to us by giving something appropriate to them. It may be a gift of time, thanksgiving, a card, or something of substance. A gift is not given with the expectation of receiving a gift in return but rather in the spirit of having already received something. It is more blessed to give than to receive. St. Nicholas’ life reflected this attitude of heart. He is known as Jolly old St. Nicholas, Santa Claus, Papa Noel, Father Christmas, and various other names in different countries and languages.

It is difficult to find a person who looks happier than a “Santa” with his twinkling eyes and joyful laugh. It is difficult to find a person so eager and ready to give to others with no thought of getting something in return. It is difficult to find a person so willing to forgive and be gracious to the smallest of offenders. Yet, these are precisely the characteristics that we Christians are to have day after day; they are the fruit of the Holy Spirit. If people all ages are drawn to these characteristics in Santa, how much more are they drawn to spirit-filled Christians who are in circulation 365 days a year rather than just a few days around Christmas time.

During the Christmas season, each time we see his symbol, let’s remember the life of St. Nicholas who gave himself and his wealth and time to those around him as he served Jesus. Perhaps someone will look at you this Christmas and say, “Hi Santa, I see Jesus in you!” The Santa in our house should be filled with Ho-Ho-Ho laughter that does our heart good like medicine. Such joy comes from knowing Jesus and is kept in manifestation by the indwelling Holy Spirit.

Thank the Lord for St. Nicholas who worshipped Jesus and whose unselfish life continues to point us to Jesus Christ—the Greatest Gift ever given. No matter how good anyone may appear to be, how perfect, how jovial, or how benevolent, only Jesus is the real source of these characteristics for He alone is the giver of the abundant life. Above all else, JESUS IS THE CENTER AND FOCUS OF CHRISTMAS. May all of our activities and celebrations point to HIM.

Merry Christmas!

Notes: On Christmas Eve when our children were small, we always read the biblical account of Jesus’ birth from the Gospel of Luke, but  I also read “The Night before Christmas” story to them and under the tree they would find gifts from “Santa.”

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My children in 1979 – not too excited about sitting on Santa’s lap

 

 

 

 

 

 

P.S. Below: This is the first time I had my picture taken with a Mall Santa, but it goes with the above story about how I relate to him. -December 2016

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(c) Above article adapted and expanded from East of Bethlehem, Chapter 13, by C. Yvonne Karl. Brentwood Press, 2003. yvonnekarl@gmail.com)