JOY: My Testimony

I, Yvonne, was blessed to grow up in a home with parents who taught me about John 3:16—how God loved me so much that He sent His only Son, Jesus Christ, to be my Savior. From the time I can remember, it was my desire to be accepted and loved by Him. Even though I was told that God’s love for me was not dependent upon what I did or didn’t do, as a child I still stumbled through times of darkness and feeling separated from Him.

Often at night, I would be gripped with fear that the world was coming to an end, and I had not achieved the perfection needed to go to heaven. I could literally hear the congregation singing, “Oh when the saints go marching in…” But the part that haunted me was, “Oh Lord, I want to be in that number…” It was as though I was crying out, Wait for me! Don’t leave me behind. Usually these night-doubts would drive me to my parents’ bedroom where I would plead with them to pray for me to have peace.

Finally, at age eleven, I had an encounter with God on my knees between my parents at the sofa of our home. Soon thereafter, I was baptized in Coal River on a cold November day—so cold, they had to crack the surface ice to complete the baptism. Even at such a young age, I expected that after that day, I would no longer be plagued with doubts about my salvation. I had such a wonderful peace—and a feeling of being on top of the world. However, I still didn’t comprehend that feelings are fickle—that salvation is by faith, not by feelings, and that I would not always “feel” saved–loved and accepted by Jesus–or even joyful.

My hunger to be accepted by God was misappropriated. I picked up a list of “thou shalt nots” from my holiness teaching. Conforming to outward appearance only sufficed to appease the flesh. My spirit continually hungered for more of God. I struggled to perfect my thoughts and attitudes and clung to God’s promises of being with me “always.” I involved myself in as many spiritual activities as I could—revival meetings, conferences, Bible reading, choir, classes, church services, and Bible Club at school. Each one gave me the euphoric “feeling” for which I longed; but much like caffeine gives you a lift, it soon wore off and I needed more.

Probably the most significant characteristic that derailed me was my often-untamed temper. I doubt that few outside my family knew there were times when I simply “lost it.” I was not rebellious against my parents. I was not disobedient. But the emotional outbursts came primarily when I was unable to accomplish my short-term goals or to rule over my spirit in certain emotional settings. “He who has no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down and without walls” (Prov.25:28, Amp). Whenever this happened, the enemy brought accusations against me—both true, based on what I had done or thought, and false, to torment my mind.

After a fast-paced senior year with all of its activities, I graduated from high school and a couple of weeks later turned 18.  In addition, I had enrolled in college for the summer semester. During this brief interim, I was suddenly overwhelmed with emptiness, insecurity, and inferiority. I began to question my salvation. Why didn’t I “feel” that I was a child of God. On a Sunday morning in June 1958, I confessed this to my pastor and asked him to pray with me to “get saved.” A very wise Pastor Haynie simply prayed, “Lord restore to her the JOY of her salvation.” Joy! What a beautiful word.

That summer, I spent many hours driving out onto the dirt roads of the countryside, finding a place to park and pray. There, in those meetings just between God and me, I confessed to Him that I longed to measure up to what I thought were His expectations of me. And He spoke to me about His unlimited love—how it wasn’t based on how I performed or felt. There, with the wildflowers blooming around my feet and the cows grazing and gazing over the fence, I gave Him my life with all of its quirks, doubts, misgivings, and frailties. I surrendered to Him my plans, my goals, my desires, and my excessive temper—all of me. In exchange, He gave me a promise of righteousness, peace, and JOY in the Holy Ghost (Rom.14:17). JOY was soon to become my favorite word. It was to pull me out of many hard places in the days, weeks, months, and years to come.

That summer a new chapter in my life began. Did I ever fall short and fail Him? Oh yes—but I confessed, and He forgave. Did I ever have doubts again? Of course—but I cast them down and refused to doubt my salvation. Did I ever feel unworthy again? Of course—but I remembered that it was not by works of righteousness which I have done that saved me in the first place. Did I ever have more out-of-control tempter? By God’s grace, no more tantrums, but thankfully healthy emotions remained. I learned that in the midst of emptiness, insecurity, and inferiority, it is up to me to “Choose Joy!”

From that summer on, my life went in a way that neither I nor anyone who knew me could have predicted. His unlimited love has enveloped me until this day—and will forever be mine. The Psalmist wrote from his heart, and I share his testimony: If God hadn’t been there for me (over and over again), I never would have made it. The minute I would say, “I’m slipping, I’m falling,” God’s love would hold me fast. When I was upset and beside myself, He calmed me down and cheered me up (Psalm 94:17-19, MSG). He taught me to “Count it all joy  when I met trials of various kinds for the testing of my faith produces patience” (James 1:2-3).

Oh yes, trials and difficulties have come at various times throughout my 82 years, but I can testify that “This JOY that I have  – the world didn’t give it to me, and the world can’t take it away!” It’s not always a feeling. It’s the knowledge that God is always present in my life (Matt. 28:20),  “… living and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the division of soul and spirit, and of joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart. And there is no creature hidden from His sight, but all things are naked and open to the eyes of Him to whom we must give account (Heb. 4:12-14).

I thank God every day for His love and JOY. It cannot be grasped. It cannot be comprehended. It is so high, so wide, and so deep that it covers every imaginable situation (See Eph. 3:17-19).  And He’s given it for free. Oh how He loves me—and you! That’s “JOY unspeakable and full of glory!”

Announcing Jesus’ birth, the angel said to the shepherds: “I bring you good news that will cause great JOY for all the people (Luke 2:10). Yes! Later during His ministry, Jesus said: These things I have spoken to you that my JOY may be in you and that my JOY may be full (Jn. 15:11). “The Joy of the Lord is my strength,” (Neh. 8:10). Not my joy, but His joy. He rejoices over me with gladness. He quiets me with His love. He joys over me with singing (See Zeph. 2:10 NASB). He makes known to me the path of life; in His presence there is fullness of JOY. I always know where to go to choose  JOY  (See Psalm 16:11).

I’ll Go!

Lord, You have bade me do Your will,

And I have struggled firm and still.

Yes, Lord, I love Your Name to tell about,

And I love to sing and pray and shout.

But, dear Lord, that night I promised You

I’d be Your child all the way through,

I did not know if You would call me

To carry Your message at home or across the sea.

Now, Lord, You know I am Your child,

And I’d walk for You that last long mile.

Although at first reluctantly,

I now commit myself to Thee.

Whatever, Lord, Your call may be

Gladly, I shall answer Thee.

Wherever that the field is bare,

Please, dear Lord, send me there.

If it be Your will for me to go,

You’ll be my guide through ill and woe.

Yes, dear Lord, I’m ready now;

My life is Yours this very hour.

Thank You Lord for matchless grace,

Someday I’ll see Your glorious face.

In my back yard or across the sea—

Gladly I’ll go, where’er You send me.

By Yvonne

Age 18, Summer 1958


The song below, written by Homer L. Cox in the early 1930’s, truly describes my experience: “IT’S REAL!”

1 O how well do I remember
how I doubted day by day,
For I did not know for certain
that my sins were washed away;
When the Spirit tried to tell me,
I would not the truth receive.
I endeavored to be happy,
and to make myself believe.

But it’s real, it’s real;
O I know it’s real;
Praise God, the doubts are settled,
For I know, I know it’s real.

2 When the truth came close and searching,
all my joy would disappear.
For I did not have the witness
of the Spirit bright and clear;
If at times the coming judgment
would appear before my mind,
O it made me so uneasy,
for God’s smile I could not find. [Refrain]

3 But at last I tired of living
such a life of fear and doubt,
For I wanted God to give me
something I would know about;
So the truth would make me happy,
and the light would clearly shine,
And the Spirit give assurance
that I’m His and He is mine. [Refrain]

4 So I prayed to God in earnest,
and not caring what folks said.
I was hungry for the blessing;
my poor soul, it must be fed;
When at last by faith I touched Him,
and, like sparks from smitten steel,
Just so quick salvation reached me;
O bless God, I know it’s real! [Refrain]

Author: C. Yvonne Karl

"Jesus is the center of my joy!" Love God. Love family. Love people. Love life.